Emotional intelligence is a set of skills that, when used together, increase the ability a person with problems controlling anger has to decrease stress and reduce anger. Emotional intelligence improves the person’s social functioning. It is an awareness of the emotions, emotional triggers, emotional cues and emotional behaviors of one’s self and others. Learning to monitor these in one’s self increases the ability to have self-control over emotional behaviors. Learning to monitor these in others improves interactions, relationships and one’s ability to function more appropriately when dealing with others.
Emotional intelligence can be thought of as a sort of IQ of the whole person. Rather than just a measure of intellectual ability (IQ), emotional intelligence (EQ) takes into account the emotional and social functioning of an individual and, in doing so, gives a more holistic view of how well a person functions. Emotional intelligence complements the intellect and helps a person make better, more informed decisions and to have better social judgment.
Emotional intelligence works in 4 areas to improve how well a person functions. These are:
• Social awareness, and
• Relationship Management
Individuals in anger management classes will create and work with an emotional intelligence map (an EQ Map) that evaluates these areas of functioning. Additionally, the EQ Map will evaluate their current environment and what stressors are presently affecting their lives. It will also identify their coping skills as well as influential personal values and beliefs that affect coping and behavior. In examining these things, people who have trouble controlling their anger will develop a better understanding of how stress, values, beliefs and their usual coping skills contribute to their anger management problems. This information can then be used to better understand their social functioning and what problems occur in interactions to create an anger management problem. As well, this information can highlight what emotionally intelligent skills are missing and should be learned to increase self-control and social functioning. The EQ Map will help identify the individualized and specific set of skills a person with anger management problems will need to learn and practice.
Emotional intelligence empowers a person to manage emotions, behavior, interactions and relationships. The uses of emotional intelligence decreases distress and stress. Additionally, learning emotionally intelligent skills in anger management classes can not only dramatically improve behavior and performance in what are commonly thought of as social relationships, but also in the workplace and community at large. Overall functioning improves as emotional intelligence and social functioning improve. The skills are teachable and learnable. Better self-control requires only the willingness to learn and to practice these valuable skills.
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